Quick thought could save a life, but It’s deep thought that save a family

 A glass of tea mixed with milk almost empty when this couple arrived, for that the man just offered apology for coming late but it was on purpose to come early, the man seems gentle and polite like many people from the north which much cold weather affect their life to be easy on life, it was surprise that his wife the one came from south which opposite in character, but mixed this couple well, as you know this couple came from where the class in their society push them to travel far to the west, beside there’s so much uncomfortable thing with their value, like not respecting woman or politic which polarized by blind nationalistic. It’s impossible to go back though actually they love their place so much but for their kids future, they prefer to stay in this place which not really same with their faith but offer much freedom and security, they moved to this place when their eldest kids just five, that meant they stayed already more than fifteen years, then they moved again as the eldest enter college, that meant they’re after their kids, to be always near as family. Other things that make this couple special is how the man introduced his wife, he hold her hand and said proudly this’s my wife, it’s so lovely, and he didn’t say this’s my best wife lol, almost all topic in the conversation were about his wife, this mean he love his wife so much, like many people from north which usually not much talking, compared with people from south, it show how his wife respect him much, perhaps because of the commitment or promises that husband pay that kept this woman happy with her husband, to see them so romantic was how this couple nicely manage their family.

Living in wherever the kids need was the purpose of this family moved, though fifteen years in this place meant settle already but not the end of their dream, lastly they moved to be near kids college, for sure need to adapt or finding new job for living, though in fact they planned everything like having fellowship, that meant would be easy finding job in new place, both are nearly middle age but still active to learn to improve their skill, though still not having consultant title perhaps it was the other things that push them to move. As you know those below consultant are the one attending everything, like on call after midnight or having more duty in family time, not like their superior who enjoy much the living, usually if they call after midnight they’ll grumble definitely lol, it’s like that how difficult life for ordinary in fast moving city, politic in workplace is common that being superior is saving much time with family. It’s the purpose to have higher skill before entering this life, it’s all for our kids, though it’s really complicated in bringing you in this city, but it’s all in our plan, saving valuable time for our family.

♡ to move to next level lol, if everything really over, though seems still there’s exam to be accomplished, wish you pass in time. If look at your thesis seems you’re interested in fm, it was expecting fer but it’s OK if it’s your fond of, it’s a long story to tell behind this expectation but it’s your choice. Nothing to worry about, it’s all according your capacity, pushing you too hard it’s really not fair, because you have so many thing to consider.

Old legacy

Family usually talk about value, but what happened if those kids are not bloodline, souls that aren’t sure where their values on family, it was on first time this woman received paper from court regarding her family, after her husband pass away, she’s the one caring her family, in fact not like what she wish for, when their adopted kids which actually not adopted because not on paper, their intentions was to help, but those kids seems growing unexpectedly. This story actually about beautiful heart couple who didn’t have kids, taking kids somewhere and rising with their genuine love but the outcome was unexpectedly, the husband was professor and strong figure in one old university, the wife have same jobs but much in private sector, both of them used to help people enter the university, they’re not accepting money but in time of need the bearer must pay the debt, this couple help so many people that respected in the society, their name always on top in any organization. Since her husband pass away everything moved to this woman, she’s still powerful figure in this city, still many people came to her to shortcut the queue in entering higher education.

Much like recent case bribery in one university but this woman not doing for money, because they’re rich already, came from wealthy family, she’s doing to help people improve their skill, of course she’s always doing background check, not just accepting if the bearer is not competent, or not having any contribution toward the scientific finding. She’s helpful in arranging emergency exit for anyone who want to study soon, or on tight schedule, but still maintaining that person she’s propose are competent, usually she just need to the bearer care about the organization, having contributions in any occasion. This couple was really having beautiful heart, though many are misusing them, just like their kids which their adopted but actually not adopted.

You know this woman can be our emergency exit, though in our family we should do it in our own, our family have values, dignity that it’s better growing in our own hands, also any shortcut just pampering and not help when in hard time. We can’t rely on them when something bad happens because we’ll be in our own, that’s why our principal in managing our own thing is important, though it’s all depends to our capacity. No matter how hard we push if our capacity like that, then no way to improve, though with hard study we could improve though it came with big effort.

Live well

It’s many time this woman wipe her tear, as one by one the condolence leave her house she start to see backwards, what’s wrong that she finally lost all the male in her family, all gone with same cases, her husband was on forty when passed away but her boy not reach thirty, it’s all about their fond of sporting at sea, her husband was expert in diving, then teach their son those thing, till this boy having job in one national television, usually his name appears on one favorite tv show. He was very helpful in making good content undersea, his expert in diving help many young artists having nice show, though it come with price. Sometimes those artist just so careless, not doing well decompression or crossing the limit time that he has to save them with risking his safety, also who will guarantee that equipment well prepared, the tube having well mixed, those thing are out of reach, really it’s not worthy compared with the precious life, something that many people not in on it.

Family for sure is about well living, not just a quick thought like those finishing cases lol, it need many consideration before choosing which one is worthy to our family, though sometimes for some reason we need on it, but still try to balance with an idea, is it worthy with our precious life? I know you seem try to catch my attention lol, as I told you on behalf of our kids, meant it’s all well plan with our family, perhaps this is the nice thing in our acquaintance, should be something to talk or speak emotionally, though it we’ll plan. Believe me, would be the nice thing ahead as we fight for something not worthy lol, why always crossing something already in our boundary, our safety should be in place, as reaching new skill, new title, everything should be well managed, including the safety for ourselves.

Every matter should be always counted, it’s for the best of our family, I know I am no one on your study now, I have no contribution to your success now, so kindly celebrate with your family especially with your mother, your sister who had much support for what you are now. Appreciate and thanks for your trust on me, I have seen a beautiful heart on you and our kids so fond of you. Love you Al.

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