A young woman perhaps could not believe that her family falling apart, as her husband start to file legal proceedings against her mother, the case was about her mother taking her belongings after her death, in her husband view those things belong together part of marriage, in her mother opinion it’s her daughter legacy as a parent she has the rights too. These family were living together as this young woman became a glues to this little family, however after her death her husband seems not to continue his relationship with her mother and her sister, this’s real case and highlights in media as this couple was high officer who commonly respected in our society, public see nervously how this family matters became criminal case as each other file legal proceedings before the law, this mean they’re no breakthrough in compromising their problems, as seeing also this husband only love this young woman and not her mother or her family, then how this couple got blessing from her parents. There’s so many questions that judge about this man, how he treated his mother in law after his wife death, as marriage mean having second parents is a honor, so love and giving compassion to parents in law is the same like to his parents, if it’s about inheritance then giving things is kind of love to parents in law than hurting them by file legal proceedings, something probably out of mind, his parents must be shameful seeing this kid has no value regarding a family, but it’s common in our society that marriage only a person they love but not their family, usually only sweet to parents in law at beginning, after sometime not seeing is becoming common.
Life in marriage for some seems complicated and can’t be judged because everyone has own values regarding family, though there’s always a common sense in happy family, like kindness than hurting or choosing compassion than hatred, it’s all about moral in family values, usually education could shape better person or a better life, but not all education could grow a person wiser, sometimes just still a kids in their little family, education just give better position in society but not the perspective in seeing others life. Then what the used of education if only to hurt others, what the used of power they gain only to be misused for their selfish life, definitely this kind person not giving peaceful family, their ego still not over after marriage, their happiness is not by satisfying others, how he can teach his kids if he couldn’t help himself, forever he will be big boy with so much playing. How this little family will go on till the end absolutely miracle, though life is always changing and giving a chance in life but not always getting second chance as death only once, then no chance to repair the damage for those selfish behavior. This’s the things like counseling in marriage was available but no chance when everything already file in legal proceedings, when everything is broken then only legal things on concern, for some how easy having happiness by hurting others, how could he is happy hurting mother of the woman he love, what kind of family it’s.
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Obsession
Finally this young woman decide to send her husband foods that she cook on her own, as her husband was on duty and could not go home till tomorrow, this’s not only once that her husband having twenty four hours duty, sometimes twice a week as sometimes helping his colleagues covering their duty, it’s like that during his husbands study and become common helping each other on covering duty. There’s so much effort this woman doing in helping her husband study, including comforting him after long hours study, giving him a well deep sleep so that could be fresh again for tomorrow duty, even they sold their house after car could not cover the expense during study as the husband the only income in this little family, everything was on bail to exchange for better future, having better income for happy family. But life seems not on their side, when her husband passed the study, passed also this little family as her husband file divorce paper on graduation date, he has already another woman who he thought having same level with him.
Might be a cruel life for this woman after all these effort and sacrifice that her husband chooses another woman, not her, a finger pointing all to this immoral husband, how could he neglected and throw away his wife after all sweet thing she had done to him, definitely everyone would judge this man has no values in family, but how this another woman willing to accept his love. Perhaps this’s complicated things in life and become common in our society, having relationships with other woman beside his wife is common in our society, and become trend as our culture seems approved in seeing this behavior, can’t blame all the things to this husband as he improves so much he must need someone beside him who knows about his things, this means why his wife not improve by learning to level with her husband. If like this the consideration where is the place for honor, honesty, loyalty to someone who gives her life for better him, definitely everyone need fair solutions as no one could be happy with so much different in life, marriage is about family, like each other then life can go on, but not all couples could survive if everyone inside not grow.
Yet it’s not this the one culprit for all the problems in immature family, the perspective they built in marriage sometimes focus on things than building the values about happy family, most people feelings happy by achieving material things than a values that could survive a family forever, respecting the sacrifice of his wife was out of consideration as he only think about his happiness. If like that how could this woman can be used for several years in order to finish the study, perhaps this woman too kind or her family was to naive in seeing the changing in this husbands life, this means this husband doesn’t deserve this kind heart woman. Usually life will arrange for someone match with this beautiful heart, though with broken heart she had to let go for the man who she was thought the great dad for her kids, if he can’t respect her sacrifice, mean he can’t teach her kids the great thing in life.
Luggage
Indeed it’s all about someone who already taking care our mother, taking away her mother would be a big lost, this’s the things called clash that would be in our future, not to shoot you personally, really can’t compare how heaven hugging our parents in person, can’t compare with those video call technology, even if they could provide like hologram, hugging a warm heart is bringing peaceful mind. Definitely when we care our mother in our family, another heart would complain for sure, still find away how to peace everyone heart in your family, that’s why need you to learn about your family, about your sister how to settle these things peacefully. You have been with your sister more than anyone, must know what the things that could change the feelings willingly without no one hurt, how we deal this things is also like we teach our kids in caring our family.
Feeling so nervous when dealing about our parents as they have also right about their life, even on our good intentions not all are right, sometimes no matter how hard we see this matter is only give wrong impression about our caring, making others happy not always the best way, sometimes misunderstanding by different perspective, that’s why talking heart to heart in a matter of family needed in solving that would be our future troubles. Our stand always bringing everyone happy, though the happiness for everyone would be different in seeing life, sometimes they just to be listened and concern with their need, that’s all perhaps would help in compromising the things. If it’s their choice then nothing we can’t do, the thing is we are paying their right without subtracting their things as this could be in their mind forever, giving a long sweet memories would better than doing good thing without their consent.
Everyone have their perspective that we should consider in listening carefully, we’re all family we don’t want to be misunderstanding for arranging the things, though really can’t keep aside this habit in commanding others, sometimes it’s better to lower ourselves, like asking their opinion though with purpose in pushing our agenda, look like tricky but in the name of our happy family we should fight for our happiness. What’s right for ourselves is for our kids too, bringing you this far was out of expectations as you focus with your study, in your meantime wish you can multitasking in preparing our family and see you so eagerly in responding the thing was a surprise lol. Wish you always happy with your choices.
